A recent study published in PLOS ONE has shed light on the deep-seated stigma and misconceptions surrounding menstruation, particularly among male clients of female sex workers (FSWs) in Kenya.
The research, conducted in Kisumu, found that many men view sex during menstruation as unpleasurable, forbidden, or risky, with some demanding refunds or leaving to find another FSW if they discover she is menstruating.
One FSW recounted, “Once they see blood, the mood for sex is spoiled.” This sentiment was echoed by many male participants, who described menstruation as a process of removing “dirty clots” from the body.
The study’s authors noted that this stigma is perpetuated by limited or inaccurate knowledge about menstruation, with many men lacking basic understanding of menstrual health. Religious teachings often reinforced these attitudes, with some participants quoting the Bible to label menstruation as unclean.
FSWs, driven by financial necessity, often employ unhygienic methods to hide their menstruation and avoid client rejection. These practices increase their vulnerability to infections and further stigmatize menstruation in their work environment.
However, the study also found that when introduced to the concept of a menstrual disc – a reusable product that can be worn during intercourse – most men responded positively, viewing it as a safe, hygienic, and cost-effective alternative to traditional methods.
Some men even expressed interest in purchasing menstrual discs for their wives or girlfriends, suggesting a growing openness to new solutions. “This could be better than sanitary pads,” one participant noted, adding that the disc could help eliminate the visible signs of menstruation that often trigger stigma.
The findings underscore the urgent need to educate boys and men about menstruation, incorporating menstrual health into school curricula and addressing misinformation through faith-based teachings.
According to the researchers, accurate information can combat myths and reduce shame, alleviating the pressure on FSWs and fostering healthier attitudes in society.
The study highlights the potential of menstrual products like discs to empower FSWs by reducing stigma-related barriers. However, the researchers caution that addressing the root causes of stigma is essential to achieving lasting change.
The authors conclude that men’s curiosity and willingness to learn about menstrual health, as seen in their receptiveness to the menstrual disc, offer hope for reshaping harmful narratives and promoting a more inclusive and supportive society.
